Today is my birthday.
Today I turn 32.
Today I was supposed to be 37th weeks pregnant.
Today was supposed to be the first birthday being pregnant.
Today was supposed to be my last birthday without a baby.
Today I was supposed to be looking forward to meeting my babies next Monday.
Instead....
Today It's been 5 months since we lost our baby girl.
Today I'm not pregnant because I lost my babies.
Today I'm not pregnant because my 3rd IVF Cycle failed too.
Today totally sucks.
On another note March is Endometriosis Awareness Month
Endometriosis is trying to ruin my dream of becoming a mother, but I won't let that happen! I will be fighting till the end!
Already started the BCP for my FET. I really thought a FET would be faster than an IVF, I thought I would be transferring my embryos sometime this week but it's not going to happen. I start Lupron on Sunday.
The good news is my Dr decided he will be transferring 2 embryos. That makes me happy, not because I want twins (believe me it scares me after what happened) but because there is a higher chance of getting pregnant if 2 are transferred rather than one.
We'll see what happens. Hopefully my next Birthday won't suck as much as this one.
Happy Birthday! I hope this is your last no baby birthday and that you get to celebrate the next one with your little one, tell your husband to spoil you because after this it will be all about babies. FETs are long, mine were always 6-8 weeks and drove me crazy. I think natural FETs are faster, but I only ever did medicated.
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Good luck with the FET!!!
Hang in there and happy birthday - I know this year is tough, but I hope you can find something fun to do!
ReplyDeleteI'm sorry today is not such a great day. I hope your future birthdays will be better
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Happy birthday... lots of love and thoughts from afar. My heart breaks for you and hope that your next birthday is so different. Love to you always xoxo
ReplyDeleteHappy Birthday! I wanna give you a big hug. Hoping and praying the FET is it!
ReplyDeletewishing you a much happier birthday next year with arms full of baby/ies!
ReplyDeleteI have all those same feelings. I lost my twins a week after my birthday. Happy F-ing birthday to me.
ReplyDeleteI hope this next FET is the charm to your take-home baby.
Happy belated birthday. I am sorry that it was such a hard day for you and a reminder of the ordeal that you have been through. I am sending prayers, love, light and strength your way.
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